Friends

The other day, an exes of mine's wife (did you follow that?), was at church. She doesn't avoid me, but she is not exactly climbing over pews to talk to me. So I decided that I would say Hi and quell any uncomfortable feelings she may have about me. Do I owe her an appology for hurting her somehow because of the person I was when I dated him? Like me about my husband's exes, does she know too much negative?

I approached/passed her in the halls and said, "Hey Jude". (Just to clarify, Jude is obviously NOT her real name.) She smiled and replied back, and we exchanged a regular, banal conversation.

I thought about it later....
I am friends with so many of my exes. I have hung out and become friends with Chris' exes, and I OFTEN have some of Will's exes over to my home. It is easy for me, and I have made some good friends that way.

And then, in that instant, an answer to those prayers of mine came to me...

people who love or who have loved the same people, should be friends.

So, that was when I unblocked Sarah from my facebook. I unblocked her from the blog.

I thought that if she and I are never friends, I've decided that it won't be because of me.